as my eldest dd approaches her teens I'm realising that I don't have a model on which to base my own parenting. my parents split when I was 13 and it really did alter my relationship with my mum. the whole "normal" kids/adult differentiation changed. we were friends in a way that I thing we wouldn't have been had dad stayed around. we were allies. I've never felt it until now - but suddenly I feel as if I'm in a family the structure of which I don;t quite recognise - and I'm unsure of my role, of how it's all supposed to work. I'm sure it will work, and I'm sure we'll muddle through - and, as dh says, everyone else will be muddling through too - it's not like everyone has a perfect model to follow and knows what to do. but I just wondered if anyone else feels a bit like this?
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anyone brought up by a single parent finding being a dual parent diffiult?
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hatwoman · 02/01/2011 22:07
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