The DDs are 3 and 4 and I overheard them talking this afternoon.
DD1: I like Daddy more than mummy.
DD2: Me too.
DD1: I wish I could see Daddy right now.
DD2: Me too.
It breaks my heart because I know I deserve it. I have been too grumpy and shouty lately, even though I think I'm doing my best with them - we go on bike rides, read stories, make cakes, go for walks, do arty stuff & as they are very close in age they play together a lot without me needing to organise anything.
It's just the whining and fighting get to me - they can whine for hours when the mood takes them, and they can go from best friends to literally tearing each other's hair out, back to best friends in the space of a few minutes (repeated x number of times a day). DD1 has to be asked half a dozen times before she does anything, from putting her shoes on to washing her hands, and it gets on my nerves wasting so much time over silly things.
DH works away, and is only home from Sunday afternoon to Monday afternoon. He nearly always brings sweets, choc, treats etc. and they see him as a sort of Santa figure Seriously, he has more patience with them and I totally understand why they'd prefer he were here at the moment.
The girls do four full days a week at preschool - we are in France and this is the norm - they seem perfectly happy there.
Don't know what I'm asking really. Their behaviour is normal, and I'm lucky that they go to preschool, and I should deal with it better but I don't know how.
I actually thought I was doing OK until today, when it dawned on me that I've turned into Mrs Shreiking Harpy Mum :(
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The DDs like DH more than me
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scouserabroad · 03/12/2010 22:20
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