So I know this is silly, and I should in reality be thanking my stars but I'm starting to worry a bit about this. My 5 week old DS is really independent. I don't really know how to start...
He is in his own cot atm because DH's snoring disturbed him and within ten days started squeaking when we put him in his Moses basket and thrashing around. Our room is too small for a cot, so just on the offchance, I tried putting him in his cot and watching him. He literally rolled over and slept soundly
He has a bath and goes to bed about half six I guess and takes 2 quick feeds at about 10:45 and again at about 4-4:30. He gets up with me at about 7 (so DH can see him before work). If he wakes up and can't get back to sleep, he cries louder if you pick him up. I have to pat him like a bloody dog or stroke him and he goes sleepy again. When we have a cuddle before bed, when he gets tired it's like he wants his own space. He does this insane wriggling thing that makes him almost impossible to hold and it's like he's forcing you to put him down. If you ignore that, he screams in your face until the minute you put him down.
He kicks on his playmat for ages, chattering to himself and I do read him stories and help him play with his toys, but he's not hugely interested. Should he be? If I let him, he'd stare out if the window for an hour, he would. He does smile when he's drifting off to sleep, but never at me. I'm pleased he's comfortable in his own skin, and he does love cuddles but he's just as happy kicking on his mat. I thought he'd need me more, want to be close to me more and be more clingy.
Could all this be a sign of some kind of mental impairment? He seems so un-bothered by me sometimes.
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Ok... So here's a new one, 5 week old too independent.
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JazzieJeff · 19/11/2010 09:27
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