im new to this but a friend recommended i try it, i dont know what else to do.
i have an 11 month old daughter who has always been a great little girl, good sleeper, hardly crys etc.
but at bed time we have always kept her routine the same, she has her bottle in her bedroom after her bath then we cuddle till she falls alseep then into her cot, but recently she has refused to go to sleep, its taking us a bout 4 hours every night to get her to sleep, and putting a lot of strain on me and my partner, so we have started trying the cryin it out method? it has worked putting her to bed, it lasts maybe half an hour then she falls asleep
but she has started waking in the night a few times crying. do i do the same then? do i comfort her then leave her to cry? im worried our neighbours are cursing us!!i give in and bring her into bed with us, then she just plays for a while!!
now during the day whenever i leave the room she crys! i cant even get to the toilet without having to take her with me!
an dif i go near her room she grabs hold of me and screams!! thinking i going to leav her in bed, shes never been upset to go into her room before!
she is teething just now and a bit moany, should i keep at the controlled crying technique, or give up and back to the cuddling to sleep! and maybe this is justa pahase due to her teeth? i just want to cry all the time im so tired, and feel like a horrible mother leaving her to cry.
dont know what else to do, any help would be much appreciated xxx
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natz23 · 15/09/2010 08:26
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