Hi
I am new to this site. I have already learnt that I have made a few gaffs!
I wondered what your opinions/suggestions would be for my current worry.
My only son ( I have three daughters) is my step son although that really is a technicality! I don't ever really refer to him as such (his bio Mum is out of the picture). I have raised him since he was 13 months old, he is now nearly 10.
We are expecting out 5th and final child and I am feeling incredible pressure to have a boy that my son longs for. he says that this would be the best thing ever and would make us a 'proper' family. He knows that he had a biological mum and it didn't ever seem to bother him but just lately he is really quite moody with his sisters and sees it very much as him on one side and them on the other.
It's breaking my heart and has taken some of the shine off our impending arrival. I am terrified I'll have a girl and he'll feel sad, disappointed and excluded.
Could any of you suggest something which could help. I took him to the last scan with me as my husband could not attend - and we went to find out the sex but weren't able to get a result 100%, this seemed to help him bond more but I feel him slipping back.
New baby is due at the beginning of November. Time is ticking.
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libbyss · 14/08/2005 22:16
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