long story.... my aunt married a man with 2 kids. there were allegations of their mum not treating them very well and my aunt and her husband got custody of them. the boy later went back to live with his mum, and my aunt and husband carried on looking after the girl, and the child they had between them
she has always been pretty messed up. and things got worse when her dad walked out on my aunt quie a few years ago. she felt it was all her fault because he had walked out on her mum and them, and now he was doing it with my aunt.
it also transpired that her grandad had abused her as a child.
she ended up being in an awful lot of trouble at school, stealing from my aunt and all kinds of stuff until my aunt eventually kicked her out at about age 17/18. she moved in with her boyfriend and has now got a little girl who is 9 months old.
they are in a halfway house right now while the council try and home them. it's in the middle of nowhere so she mixes with no-one. her boyfriend is undergoing chemo for stomach cancer and all in all she's really having a bad time of it!
we believe that she has suffered from anorexia, she is sooooo very thin. however she has apparently recently been to the doctors about her weight as she was concerned that she was getting too thin... although we don't know if she is just saying this to stop people questioning her.
.... what can i do to help her? she looks so ill all the time. i am going to see if she wants to come out with me during the week, but it's hard as her b/f is in and out of hospital quite a lot at the moment. She also doesn't live that near me... but i would like to be a friend to her so that she knows she has some support...
is there anything i can do apart from this to help her? especially with her eating?
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starlover · 26/06/2005 21:31
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