DD has a friend she's known since they were both 8 months old. She now goes to another school, but we liked the family - even went on hols with them.
I saw the Mum socially, and my DH went & did 'Boys things' with the Dad - still does a bit.
However the Dad is a builder & developer, and about 18 months ago we found out that he'd offered to buy a small house on a large plot at the back/end of our road - subject to getting planning permission for it - for 8 two bedroom flats.
The local residents were really unhappy with the proposal - the area we live in is ALL detached houses, the access to the flats would have been poor, and caused lots of traffic on a private road, which doesn't have any pavements, so is alreday dangerous at the best of times.
We felt in a really awkward position, since they were friends of ours, but tried to think how we would react about it if we didn't know them, and followed our instincts, which were to support the residents campaigning against the planning permission.
Basically the flats would have been 4 metres higher than the original house and have overlooked our (currently secluded) back garden.
Anyway, the application, and subsequent applications have now been rejected. Since then the parents have been decided frosty- particularly the bloke - not wanting to engage in any social activity etc.
DH says to just leave it - it's their decision, but I just think it's so silly to let what is effectively a non-personal 'business' decision destroy a friendship?
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Sad - seem to have lost a friend over planning permission issue...
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Legacy · 20/06/2005 13:23
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