Hi all
A while ago I did a favour for my bf and had her ds for a night so that she and her dh could attend a no-kids-invited wedding. She offered to look after my two for a night sometime in return. This seemed like a great idea, and we have arranged for her to have them for a night in July and my dh has booked a hotel for us in the Lakes. This is all a really lovely idea (lovely of bf to offer, lovely of dh to book hotel, etc.) BUT... as it gets closer to the time I keep thinking that I don't really want to go. I work full-time and so the time I spend with my dds (who are 3 and 5) is pretty special. I just keep thinking that I'd rather we did something all together as a family, rather than just me and dh going away. I'm sure it'll be nice if we do go. But... well... I'm just not happy with the idea that my dds are with a childminder till 5 most weekdays and then at the weekend I send them to stay with my friend so I can go away without them. (I know they won't view it like that, though, cos they love and adore her and her ds, so will have a whale of a time, so this 'abandoning complex' is all in my own mind.) We have been away together without them once (i.e. for one night) since dd1 was born 5 years ago, although we have both gone away individually on work things, or more rarely for pleasure. Aaargh! What should I do? I thought I'd check out opinions on here before talking to dh and risking antagonising him.... Am I being pathetic? Or am I being cruel and heartless even to consider abandoning my babies for a night? Answers on a postcard please!
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Ellbell · 14/06/2005 21:18
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