Would welcome views on whether I should get involved here or not.
Very old friend is getting married. Have 3 very old friends, all of us get on well. Names have been changed to protect the immocent. Let's call them Brenda, Shirley and Nora.
Brenda the bride to be has invited all of us to her wedding. Shirley has an invitation for wedding and reception. Her partner (of 4 years - not co-habiting) is invited to the reception only.
Nora and partner have been invited to wedding and reception. They have been together for 4 months-ish.
Shirley is upset that Nora's partner is going to the whole thing and hers is not. She sees it as not recognising the importance of her relationship. Brenda has told her she's sorry but it's all to do with numbers. Think that Shirley wouldn't mind if not for the fact that Nora's partner seems to have preferential treatment.
Brenda the bride has met each partner a few times. I would say she 'knows' them equally. Likes both as far as I know.
So...my question is...should I tip off Brenda that Shirley is really upset? If I was Brenda I'd want to know. Shirley doesn't want to talk to her about it at all.
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puddle · 01/06/2005 16:02
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