I just need to have a quick rant about my mother (well now there's a new topic - NOT ).
For some reason she irritates the life out of me sometimes. She came to pick up ds to take him to playgroup this morning, and on coming into the house she noticed the blank wall we now have near our kitchen area. She asked what I was going to put there, and I said "maybe a hutch or a baker's rack, not sure yet - I'm going to have a look around." She said "Oh no you don't want to do that. That would look terrible. Just hang a picture there." I know it sounds trivial but she ALWAYS has a negative comment to say and I can feel my blood boiling almost immediately.
Then ds was stuffing about while I was trying to put his shoes on, being really silly and showing off in front of my mother. He refused to let me put his shoes on so I raised my voice and told him that he could go to his bedroom instead of playgroup if he was going to carry on like that. So my mother steps in and starts playing with him while I am trying to tell him what to do (as if I was being too hard on him), hence his behaviour got worse. Then as she's about to walk out the door, she looks in ds' bag and says "Why isn't there a nappy in his bag??? I'm going to need a nappy for him." Well, considering he's toilet trained and has been out of nappies for about five months now, I usually only put undies and a change of clothes in the bag!!! AAARGGGHHH! She sees him at least a couple of times a week so she knows that he doesn't wear nappies anymore. Maybe it's forgetfulness on her part but she looks at me as though it's all my fault.
All of this happened in a space of about five minutes and I felt stressed as soon as she left. I don't know if she's getting worse or if I'm getting less tolerant.
Anyway I've posted enough on here lately, people are going to start thinking I'm a whinger . It certainly helps to get it out of your system though...
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Libby65 · 29/04/2003 00:49
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