This is a 'taboo' subject but wondered if anyone out there has found the same...basically my relationship with my mother has really deteriorated since having children. There is a power struggle going on and she takes every opportunity to question or make a point about what the children should be doing now. It feels like there is a competition going on....but I don't know why! It could be connected with the fact that my brother was a very difficult child who caused lots of problems - don't know if she's trying to 're-live' bringing him up through my children.
Any amateur psychologists out there with a view of why it's happening and how I can make the best of the situation, as she is very good with the children and I don't want to fall out with her?
Thanks in advance.
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Marylou · 04/04/2001 17:56
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