We had DD?s birthday party on Saturday. Bored of the usual ball-pool-pub parties I decided (in a moment of madness!) to hire a hall and have 25 kids come and play traditional party games. It went really well, everyone had loads of fun and joined in the games and most of them won prizes. We did things like musical chairs, pass the parcel, cross the river, pin the mask on Mr Incredible (instead of pin the tail on the donkey!), musical statues, etc.
DD had a lovely day and said she had really enjoyed it. BUT there was one thing that I feel spoilt the whole day.
One horrid little boy from DD?s class who came to the party (and will NOT be coming next year!). He refused to join in any games, saying they were crap (!!!! This is a 7 yr old!) and he just wanted to play football. I tried to explain nicely that he had come to DD?s party and we were all going to play some games and have a bit of fun and try to win prizes, but he replied that it was all rubbish and babyish and he didn?t want to come anyway!
He then went on to be equally rude to some of my friends and family who were helping to supervise, threw food all over the floor because it tasted horrible (ordinary ham/cheese/chicken sandwiches FGS!) and hit another boy so hard that he cried for ages.
I had intended to speak to his mum when she came to collect him, but he was picked up by another boy?s parents so I didn?t get chance. I really feel I should say something to his mum as this boy was so rude. As a child I wouldn?t have dared speak to an adult the way he did and I feel he should be made to apologise. I would be mortified if I found out that DD had ever behaved like that after having the privilege of an invitation to a birthday party.
Sorry this has turned into a huge rant! Thanks if you?re still reading!
His mum is a teaching assistant at DD?s school so I can easily get in contact with her. Should I mention it to her and ask for an apology from her DS or is that really pompous? Am I totally naïve in thinking that children should be taught to respect adults and behave politely?
What do you think?
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LouBeeLou · 17/01/2005 11:49
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