I'll explain - DD is 8 months and I'm 12 weeks pg, I dont work, DH works from 3pm - 3am ish 6 days a week. I feel like a spectator, I'm not actually involved in anything (apart from raising DD) I'm finding this hard to explain, infact I feel as if I've just run out of things to say about anything. I just dont know what to do with myself. Everyday is exactly the same as the last cooking cleaning etc. I know I need to do something everything seems so pointless. I have worked hard decorating our house which I am very proud of but no one ever comes round (my friends dont drive so I have to visit them) I go and look round the shops but I dont need any new clothes or anything because I never really go anywhere. DH works, sleeps eats, works etc. I find I'm just waiting for him to get up and go to work but by then its to late to go out anywhere as I have to get DD tea and into bed and then when she is bed all I have is the tv (which I find mind numbingly boring) DH and I get little time to talk or do anything much together apart from the weekly shopping. He would quite happily sit in front of the tv 24/7. I am quite a crafty person, I like sewing and making things but even this seems quite pointless. I used to do those cross stitches but ran out of places to put them and I was thinking about learning to make hand made cards or something but feel there would be no point as what would I do with them, who would I send them/show them to. I dont want to go to work as I want to look after DD, and BF thinks a need a night out on the town (pretty boring when your married and pregnant!) Any advice?
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