So on Tuesday morning I received a letter from Estate research/ genealogy matters, naming both my biological parents at the top of the page and asking me to contact them.
I immediately knew this was regarding my biological mother, who I’ve not seen in 25 years or so.
My older brother and I were brought up by my dad and my stepmother and our biological mother has never really been in our lives.
I seen her for a bit when I was 13 then again briefly when I was 15 then nothing.
I am now in my forties!!
We had tried over the years to find her but were unsuccessful.
It turns out she died on 26th September alone in her home and was assumed she had no next of kin.
The company I mentioned that wrote to me where requested to look for any next of kin by her local council.
It seems she had moved to England from Scotland many years ago and had also changed her name, hence the reason we could never find her.
I now feel we have been hit with this terrible news and I’m not sure how to feel or what to do about it all!!
We know very very little about her, her life everything is going through my head.
The local council dealing with it all are trying to be as sensitive as they can be.
As yet there has been no funeral and her body is still with the coroner.
I just don’t know what to do as it really seems like she had nobody in her life.
Anyone been in similar circumstances as this?
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Instamummy123 · 16/10/2019 21:02
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