How do I find inner peace and not compare myself to others. When I'm down I compare myself to what others around me have, own home, nice car nice holidays etc. Today Facebook is filled with people in their nice gardens with matching ratan furniture with the perfect grass lawns, we don't have grass, just a small flagged yard with the smell of dog wee (even though it's been scrubbed a lot) we have 2 gorgeous happy children, we work full time but never seem to have what others do around us. I start to think why is their lives better than mine, what did they do differently, which is completely unfair as it isn't a level playing field. I was brought up in the care system and my OH is simerlar, so our start at life with pretty bad, we don't have people to turn to for deposit money etc, I still see my foster parents and have a relationship with them etc
I'm a being a dick, I know I have a lot to be great full for, we have done far more with our life than what was expected of us, but on the other hand it gets me down when I see people doing so much better than us.
I do think if we had all those things I would see find stuff to pick at, how do you find/get inner peace, does it come with age, can you learn how to get it?
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Lorddenning1 · 05/05/2018 18:22
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