Grieving

[Tinkerbell275]

I have lost a close friend and finding it very hard to cope 😪😓😭

[PurpleDaisies]

So sorry for your loss.

Would it help to share what happened or some nice memories if your friend?

[DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen]

Hello, I've just lost a close friend too and am in the same situation. shit isn't it? x

[Tinkerbell275]

Yes it's horrible I just don't want to be selfish she has children and I really feel it for them. They lived next door to me and I miss hearing them. My youngest was close with her and doesn't understand

[Tinkerbell275]

Sorry to hear you also lost a close friend 🤗

[DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen]

I'm hoping time will heal but it's been a real shock as she was so young and it happened so quickly .

[Tinkerbell275]

My friend had diabetes type 2 and other medical stuff she went in hospital throwing up 2 Fridays ago had a stroke on Sunday and went into a coma. The doctor said it wouldn't look like she was going to make it. So I was there a couple a days at the hospital. On Thursday the doctors decided to switch off her life support machine Thursday midday. She was breathing by herself and then on the friday she stopped breathing 😔

[DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen]

Oh love

I know I'm still in shock and I imagine you are too.

[Tinkerbell275]

Oh really it's shocking when they are young

[Tinkerbell275]

Was your friend sick?

[Tinkerbell275]

Yesterday it's been a week she has gone I want to move house because she lived next door to me 😣

[DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen]

Yes she was sick, she knew she was dying but it all happened very fast and there wasn't any treatment. I miss her dreadfully. I can't drive past her house as I would usually pop in and see her.

[Tinkerbell275]

Thank you PurpleDaisies x

[Tinkerbell275]

So sorry to hear that 🤗

[Tinkerbell275]

I just wish we could all live forever I'm so silly thinking that 😔

[DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen]

This is the first person I've lost who is young, had lots of deaths but older relatives who have had a life,still hard but this is a whole different ball game as it feels so unfair.

[Tinkerbell275]

Yes I know exactly what you mean

[Tinkerbell275]

She would of been 37 in august the youngest I lost was my cousin he would of been 4

[DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen]

It's so sad isn't it? Properly,properly sad. Not felt sadness like this before. I'm going to take some flowers to her grave next week, that'll either make me feel better or worse, we'll see.

[Tinkerbell275]

Aww maybe let somebody go with you it can be very hard

[Tinkerbell275]

But then also it can be nice because it is so peaceful there.