My dd will be 4 in July. She had a sore bottom about 10 days ago, and I took her to the doc who suspected worms and gave us all a pill to take. The problem has ceased - the swab proved normal but that could just be due to insufficient sample taken - but caused retention which led to constipation, which in turn led to an anal fissure and therefore pain on pooing. We are now over that, lovely soft poo, but she won't go when she needs it. We spend the majority of every afternoon with her squeaking "Mummy I need a poo!" but the urge having gone by the time we reach the loo. Then the cycle starts again 10 mins later. Eventually she just poos in her pants. Yesterday I had to stay at a 2.5 hr birthday party with her because I obviously couldn't leave her to someone else to deal with. Tomorrow she has dancing. She is like a potty training toddler. There is no longer pain, and she knows and admits that. But there is a real problem. Anyone else been through this, and how the hell do I deal wtih it? I have ds1 and 2 on either side of her and a fairly hectic life and this is a NIGHTMARE.
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