Repressed memories, how do they work? I'm talking about age 3 and under. I've heard about people uncovering memories that their brain has buried for years & years, i can't imagine how that works! And is aged 3 and under too young to remember stuff long term anyway? Was wondering because I know traumatic things happened when i was little but i don't remember and though i know in theory how it has affected me it is weird not having those memories.
Also, I feel as though I am reliving my childhood, on an emotional level only, through dd who is now 2.9, that she is a 2nd 'me' or something and i have a chance to cancel out the way my life went, which i know is a really bad thing. I feel as if i'm not going to be able to relax until she is 5, settled at school, and her life is different to how mine was, if that makes sense. After she turned 18 months i felt like i could breathe again because i had a sister born at that age and dd didn't, so it was like, phew, things are different for dd already! weird huh! I think at each age dd goes through, i think a lot about what was going on for me when i was that age.
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Anyone else feel like they're reliving their childhood through their children?
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bourneville · 28/05/2006 10:27
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