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I am so angry. Tell me how to sort it please!

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Yorkiegirl · 17/05/2006 13:26

6 months ago we had new security lights fitted as the old ones we had when we moved in here weren't sensitive enough. Cost a few quid but initially they were worth it.
Then about a month after fitting the lights would turn on when triggered but then not turn off after the 3 minute setting. As the lights were wired through the upstairs lights we have had to turn off the upstairs light circuit at night. When we left them on once til 9.30pm a neighbour came and complained.
DD2 has fallen down the stairs because it was too dark to see anything without any lights on.
I have rung the electrician at least 6 times to arrange a time and he has said he will come soon. DH has done the same.
I rang again today and he hung up on me.
Now for the twist in the tale. Electrician is BIL. We have always paid for the work he does so its not like he does it as a family favour.
So how do I sort it?

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Yorkiegirl · 17/05/2006 13:35

anyone? Am leaning towards trading standards atm.

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Twiglett · 17/05/2006 13:36

talk to SIL ... she'll sort it

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Yorkiegirl · 17/05/2006 13:38

have tried that
SIL is a silly mare at the best of times and has been telling BIL not to do our work.

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Twiglett · 17/05/2006 13:39

tell him you are arranging for another electrician to come round and sort it in 10 days if he hasn't .. and you will be sending him the bill

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Yorkiegirl · 17/05/2006 13:40

he just rang my mobile and left a nasty message Sad

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MeAndMyBoy · 17/05/2006 13:41

Talk to trading standards and see what they suggest. Were really helpful when I talked to them last week about a car garage that were ripping me off. Had some sensible suggestions about things to check and ask, so not just all court and heavy stuff advice.

good luck.

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Twiglett · 17/05/2006 13:41

invite him for dinner .. leave circuit on .. get someone to trip it .. show him the problem

lock the door till he sorts it

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MeAndMyBoy · 17/05/2006 13:42

Sorry x posts. Might be best just to get someone else to sort it out and then you get let it go and smooth over the family bit - very hard and I'd be so cross behind closed doors.

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foxinsocks · 17/05/2006 13:42

what did he say?

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Auntymandy · 17/05/2006 13:43

does re setting them not help?

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robinpud · 17/05/2006 13:43

Get another electrician to sort out the problem and get dh to talk to his brother. It sounds as if it just isn't worth it trying to get bil to do the work. Be grateful they are his side of the family and not yours. Message on mobile sounds unnecessary . goodluck

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Yorkiegirl · 17/05/2006 13:51

he has been round and seen the problem but still he won't fix it.
I am so annoyed by how he and DH's sis are behaving. We have helped them out so many times. When I rang last week I asked him to just come round and disconnect the blinkin lights, never mind fixing them.
But he can't even do that.
I know he is busy, but he has time to do other less urgent jobs for SIL's friends. Just no time for us, even tho a 2 year old has fallen down the stairs in the dark twice now!

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Yorkiegirl · 17/05/2006 13:51

re setting themn works for about 5 mins AM. Then they come on again.
We haev tried it all, believe me.

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Twiglett · 17/05/2006 13:52

agree you should get someone else to sort it out and let DH sort it out

what do PIL have to say?

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Yorkiegirl · 17/05/2006 13:56

MIL can't bear BIL, she calls him a weasel!

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Twiglett · 17/05/2006 13:58

take the higher road YG

you know he's wrong, he knows he's wrong

get someone qualified to guarantee their work who isn't family

never mention it again

one day he'll turn up to fix it and you can say 'oh its ok we found a fabulous electrician to sort out the problems' then just leave it

be a lady YG .. its not worth it

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frumpygrumpy · 17/05/2006 14:07

Sounds a right pita. Ask around for a recommended electrician and leave BIL behind. I agree, don't ever mention it again and had as little to do with him as possible. When you do have to see him, smile and be lovely, they never know they're being had Grin.

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frumpygrumpy · 17/05/2006 14:07

had = have

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lahdeedah · 17/05/2006 14:18

oh no what a nightmare, poor you. As others have said you should probably just keep the peace and get someone else in to fix it.

this reminds me of when my MIL got her BIL (DH's uncle) to fit new double glazed french windows for her - the work wasn't done properly and she was left with doors that wouldn't lock and had to be tied shut with a rope for weeks on end before it was finally sorted. not good for an elderly lady living alone.

I think the best thing to do is draw a line here - don't do any more favours for them and ask nothing more from them. As frumpygrumpy said, just smile and be lovely Smile

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