Hi all.
So, about 2 months ago I posted on here about the death of my new-born. Previously, I'd been talking with some of you about my dear niece who's going through a tough time with her family and health.
Well, a few days ago I discovered I am pregnant- again! Given the short time since Maisie's death, I am finding myself not only being frightened about the future of my LO, but also that I wish it was Maisie being 'cooked in the oven' as it were. Should I be having this baby with this mindset? Is this normal?
I mean, I've spent a lot of time with my neice, and she seems to be coping better now with the 'loss' of her mother and her health issues, but I don't want her to feel pushed out? Ahh, there's so much going on in my head, and I can't make sense of it all! My Husband has been telling me that this is normal. But how can it be? I was so excited when I found out about being pregnant with Maisie, and now I just feel horrified? What do I do?
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Rosyloo · 20/10/2011 14:53
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