I'm 40 with a 4.5 year old ds. Have been trying to decide whether to have another child for about a year and have been putting off the decision because I keep changing my mind. ( I know may be too late now anyway) Many reasons not to have another based on finances, career, strain on marriage ,no family to help locally, things just getting easier, ds has always been a terrible sleeper. Worry about miscarriages or health issues or even twins! but I've always thought I would like 2 children. I suppose it's the norm isn't it? However I'm an only child and never felt lonely and my ds is sociable and makes friends easily. Anyway we haven't been trying for another whilst I make my decision. Dh is happy with one but says if I really want another he will agree
Anyway my period was late this month and I did a test and it was negative and .. I felt relieved.. not disappointed. I suppose that's made my mind up hasn't it. I'm a bit surprised though as I thought I did want another but maybe not. Don't really know why I'm posting I think I've been overthinking the whole thing. Anyone else felt like this?
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Fortunatepiggy · 04/07/2017 07:52
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