DS is 7 so a long way off yet. I've been very conscious of parenting him to ensure he's not lonely or spoilt or any of those other silly stereotypes but as he gets into adulthood I think I'll still have to bare in mind his only child status.
I'm thinking of not focussing too much attention/pressure on him,giving him space to grow and mature.
Not allowing any guilt to be put on him at Christmas or other special occasions. If he's got other people to see or places to be I want him to feel free to be away from us.
As we get into our retirement years I don't want him to feel soley responsible for us. I'm not sure how to achieve this though!
I can't think of anything else really. Just quietly backing off a little,letting him spread his wings. You'd do that no matter how many children you have though.
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retainertrainer · 11/11/2016 13:37
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