I am a so called old mum, had my little one when supposedly my fertility was declining and I just hit the 40 milestone, I have a career, financial and social stability, a happy marriage but after my daughter's birth 4 years ago, we were given the disheartening news of unexplained secondary infertility! Without going into many details, I almost died on the operating table with an emergency C-section and knew right that moment I will not be able to conceive again, albeit NHS was convinced so....but that's another story...
After over 3 years of trying, after 3 fertility clinics after spending time recovering away from my little princess we have decided to draw the line.....and we are happy with the decision, but.....we have never imagined or fantasised for a life being 3! Hubby and I both have siblings and they have 2 or more children, we know very few couple with only one child, we have no idea what Is best, what to do, what not do.....but most important what is like? I adore spending time with my little one, but it is that too much, am I turning her into an adult too early? She is cheeky, but I am proud she already has principles like hitting is no no no, or snatching does not make you a good friend etc. she is very popular I have been told at her nursery, but will be the same at school? What about school holidays? How to explain why Elsa from Frozen has a sister and she does not have one?
What is like be 3? What is like to be 3 in a world of 4?
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Azzurro · 12/12/2014 10:03
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