Wobbly in the emotional context, not physically (thanks to Slimming World)!
I've just joined Mumsnet today. It's a big big step for me as the only other forums I've been a member of are fertility ones. I've spent the last 10 years either trying for a baby, losing a baby in the worst way, coming to terms with that, trying again, having my DD who has special needs and thinking about having another. I've just found out that I can't. It appears that I may be entering the menopause at the age of 38 and it is highly unlikely that I can have another. I started looking into IVF with DE but have realised I am only really thinking about it now for my DD and having a sibling.
I've got two siblings and can't imagine not having them so coming to terms with having an only has been tough. It's made easier by realising that she will not be unusual in her generation and that there are a lot of pluses to being an only. I guess I just need some time to come to terms with it.
As for the Italy/Holland analogy, I already live in Holland due to DD's tracheostomy, now I seem to have gained another home there too. And I know from when I bought my first property, it's a pretty amazing place.
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RunningMinxie · 20/05/2011 10:22
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