OK, thought about posting this in AIBU but I want sensible answers rather than a flaming..
DS is 19 momths old and has had the same key worker since he started nursery at 12 months. She adores him and, in general, I've been really pleased with how she looks after him. She seems to really know his personality and notices when he's off-colour etc. And I was pleased that he's got someone looking after him who seems to really like him, IYKWIM, rather than it just being her job.
When I picked him up the other day, she said that she'd taught him a new word, "sexy". She said she'd called him sexy when she'd had to change his clothes and he repeated it. She seemed to think it was very funny but I think she got from my reaction that I didn't. I think I just said "oh, ok then" or something like that.
I absolutely hate children being referred to as sexy but had shrugged it off as a one-off. I can't control everything that anyone says to DS when he's at nursery so there's no point getting wound up about it. However, I mentioned it to some friends the other day and they were horrifed that she'd said that to him while he was naked and think I should talk to the nursery about it.
To give a bit of background, the keyworker is really fond of DS...really, really fond of him, to the extent that she says she wants to take him home, which I just laugh off with a "well, you'd be welcome to him when he wakes at 3am then!". She's offered to babysit and even asked to take him out at the weekend as she was on holiday the following week and would miss him. It's starting to make me feel a bit uncomfortable but not sure if I'm just being a bit overprotective and PFBish.
Should I talk to nursery about it? Not sure what they could do though...tell her not to like him so much?!
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DS's keyworker called him "sexy"...
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HensMum · 01/06/2009 11:38
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