I've got a 3 1/2 yo DD, and she has done (most of) her first week at nursery.
I start at Uni in two weeks, but because I'm doing Law I have 5 lectures each morning from 9-2, and then supervisions every afternoon until 5pm (I'm at Cambridge, it's a weird system!), so she's in nursery from 8am until 5.30pm as I've got a ton of pre-reading.
As I've always been on my own with her we are very very close and very very good friends, and do everything together, until now.
She did used to go to a childminder's during term time for 3 half days from being 9 months so that I could do my A-levels, but it was 8 weeks there, 8 weeks at home full time, 8 weeks there, etc.
From May however we've just been home together every day, and we are as close as ever.
Now she is distraught every morning from waking up, she won't let go of me when we get to nursery, I can hear her still screaming when I'm in the car park when I leave, she screams when I pick her up and begs me not to take her back, it's awful. I feel sick!
I keep telling her how wonderful she is and how brave she is being and how great it will be to have friends to play with and parties to go to, and am really strict with picking up times so that she knows I'm always coming back for her, but I am finding this harder than I would ever have imagined. I can't bear taking her because I feel like I'm mentally scarring her.
I'm getting daily reports from the nursery nurses and she calms down and plays fine after a while, and she's always had playdates at other people's houses and toddler groups to go to etc, so it's not that she's anti-social, she's the leader of the pack already apparently, I'm just scared she'll really start hating me because I've never been able to give her time away from me because there is no one to have her while I go somewhere without her, and despite my reassurances she seems to think that nursery is a punishment, despite the fun she really honestly does have there.
How have others dealt with this? Does it get any easier?
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Hansmummy · 20/09/2007 21:04
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