My LO, nearly 1, has been at nursery for a couple of weeks. He does 3 days 8.45-5.30, though I can often get him earlier on the third day. His key worker is lovely, really good at chatting to me at pick up. He’s always excited to get there in the morning, cries when DH actually leaves but he usually hears that he’s stopped before he gets back down stairs. They said that when he does get upset it’s usually whinging rather than actual crying and that he can be distracted from it easily with play. So that’s all really positive.
BUT, he’s not really napping there at all and only having about 45 mins in total (usually two naps totalling 2 hours plus at home). He will not go in their cots and is having to be held to sleep. I feel this is all my fault as I never pushed him napping in his cot at home - always napped in pram whilst out and about, in bouncer or next to me on sofa. He’s very wary of being around so many other children and the noise. This is my fault, I never really took him to groups so he’s just not used to it. When I pick him up he’s often being cuddled and just looks so tired. I feel so guilty that I didn’t ‘prepare’ him properly and I worry that he’s being a bit of a nightmare for them. I’m a teacher so am maybe trying to read between the lines too much when they tell me things.
Reassure me that this is completely normal? That he will get used to the noise of the other children and will start napping? And that nursery workers are really used to this sort of thing and aren’t thinking I’m terrible for not preparing him better?!
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birdybirdbird · 05/09/2019 11:11
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