My 16 month old ds had his first settling session day before yesterday. When we got in the room (very small nursery with only 3 kids in toddler room and one worker) he lay on the floor and cried the whole time, he wouldn't let me pick him up, he just lay on the floor. I chatted to the key worker and we stayed about 20 mins then we left.
Today, we arrived and he lay on the floor and started crying but not too loudly. Only one other child plus key worker there, nice and peaceful and homely. I did a quick exit. When I returned after 30 mins he was in a curled up ball clutching his comfort blanket, face down. Basically the whole 30 mins he had lay on the floor without moving or responding while the key worker chatted to him. Then he slid onto his front and curled up in a ball face down and again would not respond to the key worker. He is a real cryer and has been a cryer all through babyhood (he had colic AND reflux!) and is hard to console. So i was amazed he wasnt crying but found it almost disturbing to see him 'shut down' like that - he's never done that before. Has anyone else got experience of this? I don't know if I would prefer crying?! Or is it a good thing he wasn't crying?
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Emma1609 · 09/11/2018 12:02
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