My son goes to nursery every day 9am - 4pm.
Four times this year they have called me to collect him around lunchtime as he is "unwell". 3x with fever. 1x (yesterday) with rash (they have 2 cases of hand foot and mouth doing the rounds this week).
I have an au pair who does the drop off / collection / collects when sick and I pay her overtime when my son is sick.
3x this year they have called as they have advised he has a fever. However when the au pair has collected him and when I see him after work, he is happy, laughing, eating etc with no sign of fever so I've sent him back the next day.
Yesterday they called me as they said he had a rash & blister in his mouth. He came home, was laughing, playing, no sign of a rash and no fever.
I called the doctor who had an appointment for the next day (ie today) but as he was fine, I sent him back to nursery today and cancelled the doctors appointment. They weren't happy that I sent him back this morning as they thought he was coming down with hand, foot and mouth and they wanted me to take him to a doctor to confirm. But since he showed no signs of anything (I couldn't see any rash or blister) there wasn't really anything for me to show the doctor and I hate wasting my time and the time of a doctor to prove he is not sick .
I'm really struggling on how to approach this with the nursery. I understand if a child is sick then they have to be sent home but in every case this year my son has showed no signs of sickness during the 4 times they have sent him home early. It is disruptive to him, me and my au pair (who comes home early from English class to collect him) plus I incur the cost of paying them and overtime to my au pair.
Does anyone have any advice of how I can address this??
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Nursery calling to collect son with "sickness" - but he isn't
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roses2 · 03/10/2018 11:36
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