DS is 10 months old. I am due back at work in February. We have a space at a Bright Horizons nursery and plan to start settling sessions in the next couple of weeks. He will go to nursery at least one day/2 sessions a week, some weeks will be 3 days (DH works shifts.)
I’m feeling quite concerned about this because DS is exceptionally clingy and anxious, compared to other babies his age. He cries if I leave the room, won’t sit with anyone else (even Grandparents who we see weekly) and has only ever been away from me and DH once. This was for 3 hours, with grandparents at 5 months old and he screamed the entire time. Not surprisingly we haven’t tried again... All of these behaviours have been going on since around 5 months and we actually wonder if that one time triggered it (can’t remember if he was like it before!!) He has been marginally more sociable in the last couple of weeks (will smile, wave, accept high fives/kisses etc) but still cries 9 times out of 10 if passed to anyone else and stops as soon as he comes back..
I will of course talk to the nursery about how best to manage it, and they’ve said we can have as many settling in sessions as we need but I was just wondering if anyone has been here before and has any tips/reassurance. Or any nursery workers with ideas on how to manage it.
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Naschkatze · 28/12/2017 19:03
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