My 14 year old ds has been at a pru for a year as he refused school after a year of difficulties with other children bullying and the schools lack of understanding or support. 3 years of troubles. Now we are still not perfect and he struggles with depression and anxiety but we get support from the pru and camhs.
NOW my eldest (16) ds has been refusing school this will be week 3. We went to GP who believes its due to low mood and his severe acne. He wont talk to me, wont leave his room let alone the house.
5 years ago their father and i separated and i believe it had a lasting effect on them. My eldest has never wanted to talk about it (their father ended up in mental health facility as he had breakdown) they didnt see him properly for 3 years.
My eldest was given a sick note which runs out tomorrow so he either has to go back to school, get another sick note or i get prosecuted (he has less than 90% attendance and is being monitored).
He wont tell me anything, he just keeps saying 'i dont know what you want me to say!' i cant tell if hes ready to go back or not as hes not left his room or engaged with me at all. Im really at the end of my tether here. My own MH is on the line and im desperate to help him and my 14 year old but its like walking in a minefield with them.
I also have a 10 year old ds who needs me and i have barely anything left in the tank for him or my partner.
I dont know what im asking for. I just need some help.
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Cazturn1972 · 04/03/2018 18:57
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