Hi
Sorry, I'm new to this forum so hopefully I'm posting correctly!?
I'm currently going through an issue with my 5 year old daughter & was wondering if anyone could offer some advice.
My daughter is going through a phase of being terrified of being left. Ie me or her dad leaving the house & her alone or not being picked up from school etc.
We have never "lost" her or left her which could have created this stress so I don't understand why she has this concern.
She's very advanced for her age & ive tried reassuring her, asking why worried etc but to no avail. The teachers have even mentioned that she gets upset when they leave the class room (assistance always there, so it's not like there's no adult supervision)
Tonight she literally went into hysterics after I put her to bed as I went into the utility room to sort washing & didn't hear her call my name. (She often checks were still there by listening on landing etc) I was in my pjs so don't know where she expected me to go. I have to promise every night that I'm not going out.
I know at this age they have great imaginations & are starting to realise their place in the world & how big it is etc so it's probably just a phase etc however, I hate seeing her so distraught & was wondering if anyone had any advise to help eleviate her worries. It's becoming an issue now as it's starting to upsetting her twin brother.
Many thanks
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Goldilocks83 · 19/03/2017 21:35
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