Hello, am new here, looking for some advice! My husband and I are discussing having a third child, and because we can each fully appreciate the other's viewpoint, actually coming to a decision is proving difficult. I am the driving force as I have a strong instinct to have another, and am largely emotionally led in all the major decisions I make. My husband is overridingly practical about his decisions and thinks very carefully about any important choices he has to make. Essentially, although he says part of him very much sees the positives in having another baby from a purely emotional standpoint (ie the idea of having a larger family) he is struggling to reconcile those feelings with the knowledge of all the inevitable practical changes and emotional pressures it will entail. He has suggested that I try and compile a list exploring the reality of these issues - ie how will having another child ACTUALLY impact upon our lives? Any thoughts? Perhaps from people who already have 3! I don't want to 'convince' him to have another, but I need to make him realise I have fully taken on board what the reality of having three (in a practical and emotional sense) actually is! What is it really like having three? X
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