I love my mum but she just disappoints me all the time. She lives a good 2 and 1/2 hrs away but even if she lived closer I'm pretty sure she'd be the same anti social / anti child/ opinionated person.
I have a two yr old and I just feel disappointed that she doesn't want to see more of her. In fact she puts her dogs well before her grandchildren! She recently posted on Facebook that she'd love to foster / adopt dogs but can't because she has grandchildren(!)
I can't remember the last time my parents came to visit me. I always end up going to them and I'm just so done with making the effort.
i guess I just see other people going to coffee with their mum who is genuinely interested in them and their grandchildren and I'm just upset that this is something I can't have with my mum.
I've tried talking to her about it but nothing changes. I can't make her want to be interested or more involved and wouldn't want to as it would be forced.
I just wanted opinions as I'm at the stage where I'm done making the effort as I always end up disappointed.
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Preston78 · 10/07/2016 21:10
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