I'm working through the diagnostic process for Aspergers. If I don't have it I will be surprised but it will just confirm that I'm a defective person 🤷♀️.
But going on the assumption I DO get a diagnosis, what next?
I'm 44 and it's not like I can go back and relive my life. Well, half a life. I guess. I'm pretty inept as a human.
Feeling quite down about everything right now and don't have anybody to talk to in real life that understands. Understands that I feel like my head is going to explode from trying to carry out a 'normal' life that others seem to do with such little effort, the constant pressure of feeling like I'm a bit thick and not totally in the world like everyone else, the mental assault that is everything from soft play (I have 2 children who help with the lived half of my life--they are ace!) to family dinners to picking the kids up from school, being the 'black sheep' of my family and, well, all the rest...
Does anyone have any thoughts on what happens post diagnosis? Or any helpful resources (websites, books, etc) for a middle aged woman? Experiences, anecdotes?
I think I find out next week...
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KeysToTheCastle · 07/12/2018 00:50
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