What are the signs that someone is going to accept or not accept your autism?

[OutofSyncGirl]

I'm fed up with being hurt. And basically with people who say it's fine that I have autism and then later say they can't deal with it.

I don't have many obvious meltdowns but it is obvious that my brain is wired differently.

How many of you have NT partners? What were the early signs that they were truly accepting of you and not just paying lip service?