Hi
I've never been diagnosed with anything but a lot of the asd traits ring a bell with me. One thing that I have always discounted is the "difficulty with small talk" element. Now I would say I was actually quite good at small talk... BUT. It is a complete"act". I feel like a different person when I do it and am exhausted afterwards. I would really much rather launch into a philosophical/moral/political ie "serious" discussion about stuff but I deliberately hold back and go in the opposite direction because I know people don't like that (generally!) Sometimes though, after merrily chatting inconsequentially for a while, with everyone laughing etc, I slip up and say something quite sardonic or critical, or heading in the more serious/analytical direction, and I kill the conversation dead... Then I spend ages berating myself about doing this and get quite down.
Anyone relate?
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Small talk - being able to "perform"
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LastnightaDJ · 15/02/2017 13:04
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