I find it really hard doing bedtime on my own with my 13wo twin boys and wondered if anyone had any tips to make life easier?!
If I just had one or the other it would be (relatively) easy - but I can't get one calm enough to sleep without the other getting worked up! DS1 is more of a pain, he goes into an absolute tizzy trying to get himself to sleep. DS2 will self settle occasionally but we haven't even bothered trying with DS1, he's bad with or without getting attention.
I do live with their dad at the moment but not sure how long for - OH is so snappy and grumpy since we had the boys - I think a combination of work stress and trying to adjust to fatherhood. I'm sure he loves them to bits but it's like he's bored with the everyday routine/ monotony of childcare. This evening has been horrid, we had a nice day doing stuff with the kids, then he took a work phone call and has snapped at me ever since - it's easier to do bedtime by myself (even though it took 2.5 hours!) than ask him and risk having my head bitten off again.
If anyone has any ideas that would be much appreciated - I don't have any family close enough to help. Really wish I did but the nearest are 1.5 hours away!
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RubySlippers77 · 09/01/2016 21:33
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