Hello
Would love some twin-specific thoughts on this. DTs are 2.9mths. With hindsight I've felt that we potty trained DD1 (now 4) too early, so we've been very content to watch and wait. DTS has been using the potty regularly for just over a month - we let him go whenever he asks, and suggest he does a wee before bath etc, but haven't pushed it (not least because he decided to start when we were on holiday!). He's still in nappies, but I'm pretty sure he's ready to make the next step and the only thing stopping us is my reluctance to engage with the whole process.
Except... what to do with DTD? Until very recently she has never shown any interest in the potty, will happily sit in a filthy nappy for as long as you let her and deny she's done anything etc etc. She is a bit of a perfectionist, extremely strong willed and has a tendency to hide behind being a 'baby' if she can't do things perfectly (eg has refused to use a proper cup until last week). Since DS has been going on the potty she has occasionally asked to try and will sit for ages but doesn't produce anything. Yesterday at bathtime I asked if she wanted to go on the potty and she said 'What's the point? My wee never comes.' I suppose I'm worried that if I start with him and he does well with it, she'll take it personally and will withdraw even more from the process.
Am I just making excuses? Or sounding a bit mad? Would you just concentrate on DTS for now or try and bring DTD along too?
Thanks for your thoughts.
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jassinkernow · 10/06/2011 07:20
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