I am going to get married to my partner who was born in Austria but has been in the UK for 5 years. His family is an old aristocratic family whilst my parents are working class. DP's visits to my family so far always caused mutual embarrassment in spite of the good intentions on both sides. With DP you can have an interesting conversation about the war in Libya or Beethoven's symphonies, but has no idea about football, sitcoms that is my dad's and mum's favourite topics. They all try very hard, but just can't get it right.
Now, I really don't know how to organize the wedding. DP's parents speak a flawless English, but are even more "toffish". They are also devoted Roman Catholis. My dad used to be a union leader, and is a proud atheist. His parents want a religious ceremony, wearing traditional outfits etc.
How could we sort this mess out? Maybe 2 separate weddings? The civil one in England and the religious in Austria?
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Blon · 05/04/2011 18:11
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