have had 2 m/c, and 1 prem baby who did not make it
friend got preg after we lost prem babe - couldn't face seeing her
tried to explain - she was upset and showed lack of understanding even tho she had a m/c herself
now have baby of a few wks. dh arranged for us to visit. i've been coerced into saying yes.
losing sleep when sleep hard to come by, bringing back memories of lost babe as friendship was from then
can't cancel as will cause too many ructions in marriage and social circle.
can't forgive that she was not sympathetic when i explained how low we were at losing daughter, is it not understandable to not visit a baby if yours died, and a true friend would put no pressure and just say it takes as long as it takes?
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hairband · 27/08/2009 14:03
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