miscarried at 9 weeks

[sadjen]

hi every1! im new 2 dis site. im so unhappy as i had a mc on mon, stil cant believe it has happend! i woz 9 weeks, i started bleeding 3 weeks ago, had an early scan at 6 weeks n woz told everyfin woz fine n there woz a heartbeat n 2go home as i woznt havin a mc n dat they didnt no where the blood woz comin from but everyfin looked ok n not 2 worry abt the bleeding as long as it werent 2 heavy! i took 2 weeks off wrk 2 take it easy, but on in the early hours of mon morn 25th i had really bad stomach pain which woke me up, i layed there tryin 2 convince myself it woznt happenin n tried 2go bk 2 sleep! i woke up at 8am, went 2 the loo n the baby woz there in my knickers! i woz shakin n screamed 4 my husband! we went down the hospitial n they confirmed i woz havin a mc! i cudnt stop cryin, i am so devasted, cant stop finkin abt it! i feel so lonely! dis is the worst fing dat has happend 2 me ever n i dnt no how im goin 2get ova it! has any1 been thru anyfin similar? x

[pinky78]

hi jen so sorry 4 ur loss ive had 23 mc all i can say hun that it does get easier hope you feel better soon xxx

[mummylight]

I am so very sorry for your loss. Have you thought about the Sands Org. They are there to help you and offer any advice. Last year i lost my son at 23 weeks , due to a contracting a viral infection and having councelling has helped.

[lal123]

jen - so sorry for your loss. Lots of us on here have had similar experiences and can understand what you are going through. It is hard but it gets easier. I've had 2 mcs, and am now 18+4 preg. Having someone to talk to might help.xx

[sadjen]

fank u every1 4 replyin, i feel 4 u all dat have been thru a similar experience, i really feel dreadful n wudnt wish dis on any1! i jst pray dat i neva av 2go thru dis agen! i really dnt fink i wud cope! dis woz my 1st pregnancy so is really heartbreakin 4me! i have 2go 4 a scan on mon jst 2make sure my body has got rid of everyfin incase of infection which im not lookin 4ward 2as it wil bring it home 2me dat my baby is gone! they av also sent the baby away 2c why it died! words cannot explain how i feel! x

[emjking]

i had a miscarriage at 8 weeks jan 2007, it does happen for a reason i know thats probally not much comfort at the moment, i got pregnant gain jan 2008 and although i constantly worried i now have a beautiful baby girl, best of luck for the future

[Gabs012]

I am 9 weeks pregnant and 3 days, I went for an early scan when I was 7 weeks and 6days, an internal scan took place due to not having a full bladder/not finding the baby in the womb, when the internal scan took place the baby was there and the nurse said everything looked fine and well. There was a heartbeat. I got referred for an early scan due to bleeding with no pain. The nurses said this was just an implantation bleeding. Then now at 9 wk. I am experiencing bleeding again, I'm only 16 and this is my first child (not planned). The bleeding now is similar to what it was before but can come out with very very small clots barely noticeable and only had 2. My mum says it should just be the same and it may still be implantation bleeding, but my pregnancy symptoms keep coming and going could this be a threatened miscarriage?