Hi
Can anyone tell me of a good book to read - I suppose I had taken it for granted that my pregnancy would go smoothly, just like all my friends pregnancies had. I just didn't realise how common mc is. And now I feel I need to read something to help me come to terms with things. But I had no idea there were so many books out there until I found myself losing my first baby and it's so confusing.
I'll never forget going for my 12 week scan, excitedly thinking how I could then go and buy some cute baby bits I'd got my eye on and to celebrating with friends after keeping it secret for so long only to see a black screen, no heartbeat, and being told my baby had died at 6 weeks. That was on my birthday on July 31st.
While I hope that it was just 'one of those things' and I don't want to scare myself silly with reading, I do feel I want to know what's normal for life now and be better prepared for the future.
In all the shock of it all, something I never thought to ask is what happened to my baby at the hospital when I had an ERPC, and I never thought to ask the hospital for some kind of certificate just to acknowledge our little baby. I've since read some hospitals give you a special certificate but I don't know if I could have had that or not.
Presumably they didn't do that as I wasn't offered it, but I wish I'd known that's something that is possible.
And while I'm sure my GP is very well qualified, it's all very matter of fact and I feel that the clock's ticking fast as I sit there and they just want to move on to the next person as soon as possible, so I don't know if I should have any tests or be doing anything that I haven't been told about through them just being too busy or worried about their budget. I've only just come off antibiotics from an infection and am feeling pretty low. Please help! xx
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A good book to help make sense of things?
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blogmumuk · 02/09/2008 20:31
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