I've had a pain in my coccsyx (tailbone) since just after my miscarriage in April (2007), it's much worse coming up to my period and during.
It's a weird sort of pain - in the way that when I touch it or press on it it doesn't hurt at all but when I stand up from being sat down it feels like gravity or pressure or something goes to that area and it's a very concentrated tender pain. It also hurts when I sit in a certain way.
The other thing that worries me if that it hurts when I tense my pelvic floor muscles...
I'm thinking maybe it's not my coccsyx specifically but that's just the only thing I can think of in the area where it hurts IYSWIM...
My mum made the point that some organs/parts of the body don't have pain receptors and maybe I'm just feeling the pain in the nearest place which as a pain receptor and maybe it's somewhere like my womanly parts..lol.
I went to my doctor and described the pain to her she went blank and asked me what I meant by 'coccsyx' and I said "err...my tailbone..!" This immediately filled me with confidence..(I thought a doctor would know the medical word for a tailbone!)
She then sighed, looked confounded and said "well you know..you say that this pain came about around the time of your pregnancy - sometimes emotional pain can manifest itself in other ways....maybe once you've had your counselling the pain will go away"
and I asked her - wouldn't it be better to rule out anything physically wrong first?
and she said "if you were hoping for an xray i don't think that's really necessary".
and left it at that! This pain has been going on for 8 months now!
I really want to find out what it is, but my doctor made me feel stupid - I already don't trust doctors and I'm not confident enough to go again... : (
Do you think she was suggesting that my pain was psychosomatic?
n.b my hospital discharge note said I had had a 'complete' miscarriage.
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Pain in coccsyx after miscarriage - Dr. fobbed me off, advice please!
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pixiella · 14/01/2008 18:03
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