I'm 38 and in a very happy relationship. I have two children aged 8 and nearly 12 from a previous marriage that I share 50:50 care with my ex. My fiance has no bio kids.
Had a unusual bleed three days ago and realised my period was late. Thought nothing of it as on mini pill that I take religiously.
But mum (retired nurse) advised me to take a pg test and to our total shock it was a positive.
Despite being a shock my fiance was very happy and so supportive, we don't have much financially but we'd get by.
Long story short, started spotting on and off and then bleeding slightly. I've had mc's before with ex-husband but also a bleed with my eldest so was quietly optimistic.
However, took another test a while ago and it's now negative 😢
Although the baby wasn't planned he/she was much wanted and I feel desperately sad for my fiance who went through mc several times with his ex-wife (they sadly never ended up having children for many reasons).
I do worry that at 38 I was just too old?
I'm so sorry for all of you going through miscarriage and baby loss, it's horrible at whatever stage, whether planned or unplanned.
I'm so glad I can touch base on here with people who understand x
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Early mc of unplanned baby
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Ella1980 · 21/07/2019 13:14
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