Hi All,
I'm still trying to come to terms with my recent miscarriage and my head is all over the place right now. I spent the whole weekend in bed crying my eyes out and called my OH during a hysterical moment and was basically told that i'm a grown woman and need to get a grip. He has never seen me like this before and admittedly he is not the sensitive type. He is more of a 'tough love' person and doesn't want to dwell on things. Although he was incredibly supportive the day it happened which I am so thankful for, he did say that he mourned and grieved that day but he is getting on with things now. Once things all calmed down he came round and comforted me and said he will be here to support me but clearly we are handling this completely differently. I can't seem to just get on with normal daily duties like he can. Everything is a struggle and i feel SO fragile, vulnerable and insecure. Is this normal?
I just wanted to hear from any women experienced something similar and how they stopped it ruining the relationship? For those who couldn't always turn to their partner, how did you cope? And did you put a brave face on when you were together? I feel like i'll push him away if I'm miserable everytime we are together but it's so hard to pretend like everything is fine when tears literally come to my eyes throughout the day & evenings :(
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liveinhope100 · 29/04/2019 13:22
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