Hi everyone.
I'm 21 and underwent an ERPC on Wednesday after discovering my first pregnancy had ended in a missed miscarriage. I was supposed to be 12 weeks but scan showed baby had stopped developing at 6/7 weeks
The pregnancy I lost was conceived despite using contraception, so very much unplanned. However, once my fiancé and I had gotten over the shock, we were happy. We were, and still are, devastated to have lost it.
I didn't quite realise how much I wanted a child until I became pregnant, and now I am no longer pregnant I am utterly desperate to conceive again, even though I'm terrified I'll miscarry again.
Of course I need to discuss this with my fiancé, and we wouldn't start trying until I'd recovered from my ERPC (right now I'm still bleeding and in pain). I know I'm only 21 so have plenty of time to have babies, but I'm desperate
I'm just worried that this desperation is just me being emotional and hormonal as a result of my miscarriage. I'm also scared of being judged if I get pregnant again quite soon. I'm ALSO scared of having another miscarriage. I'm just scared in general
Thanks for listening to my ramblings. This has been a very tough week for me and just writing this stuff down is a great help.
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Unplanned pregnancy ended in MMC, now desperate to try again?
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CobaltRose · 13/04/2018 16:00
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