Hi,
I have had a late period this month so decided to take a pregnancy test a week ago, it said negative however an hour later it turned to positive really lightly. I took the second one in the pack and it said negative, but just to be sure I took another one from a different make and it also said negative but then turned positive really lightly about 3 hours later. By the next day I think the one that said negative had a really slight positive line (although it may of been me driving myself crazy). However I took these as positives and rang an appointment at bpas to talk about my options for tuesday coming (3 days time).
I found out I was pregnant in March and the tests came up really lightly then as well, I was not ready for this so I booked a medical abortion, however before my appointment I miscarried at 5 weeks which was confirmed in a scan. Since then I have not had unprotected sex, I have been on the pill however I wanted to get a period so I came off it and started using condoms instead so I could be extra certain, so I must be the most unlucky person in the world if I am/was pregnant! However I do take sertraline, so maybe that cancelling the pill out might make sense? That's the only possibility I can think of.
In the past week I have definitely felt pregnant, I had sore boobs, morning sickness, needed a wee all the time, tired, and a few days ago I had some light brown/pink spotting (I heard this was normal).
Yesterday morning I woke up to what seemed like a period, for about half an hour I had a really bad pain in my belly so I rang 111 and said I thought I was having a miscarriage. They suggested I go to the walk in center for pain killers etc however as soon as I got off the phone the pain went away. Since then I have not had any bad pain, just cramp like I would get if it was a period. The blood is quite heavy and it seems to be sinking to the bottom of the toilet, however I haven't passed any big clots or anything?
I can't tell if I'm having a miscarriage, there's definitely way too much blood for me to still be pregnant and I also don't 'feel' pregnant anymore, I've lost all the other symptoms. But I have had a miscarriage before and it was a lot worse than this, the blood was thicker and I was in so much pain I needed codeine to help. I am not in even 1/4 of as much pain now and the blood is fine(ish), I mean a lot does come out when i go to the toilet and I can't see a lot of it as it seems to be more when I am going to the toilet, I guess I just thought if it was a miscarriage it would be like A LOT of blood?
I am still going to the clinic on tuesday so will hopefully find out then but does anyone have any help or a similar experience to put my mind at rest? I am absolutely terrified of getting an abortion and never wanted it to be something I had to do, so although having a miscarriage is absolutely heartbreaking, I would feel slightly better knowing it was naturally happening and I wouldn't have to go through getting the abortion pill.
please help, thanks!! :)
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orange487 · 14/10/2017 17:16
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