Hello Ladies,
Not sure what I'm after or just need to vent. Currently recovering from first MC at 6 weeks. Pregnancy was rubbish timing etc but it's still be an absolutely traumatic couple of weeks.
My main gripe comes from how blooming useless DP has been. When we first found out it wasn't to be he was 'if we make it a big deal, it becomes a big deal' and 'millions of women go through this, you'll be fine' which at the time I appreciated because I didn't want a massive fuss; just wanted it to be over.
Then it's actually happened and it's affected me more than I thought. He just doesn't seem to 'get it' I feel yuck physically and emotionally, I can't get comfortable etc and he seems to think it's business as usual- even suggesting his mother comes over for the weekend. I also had the gem of him asking if I fancied some 'relations' this morning! I kid you not. When I told him no he then asked when I'd be up for it?!? 😨😨
I've tried talking to him about it all but he gets quite defensive saying I'm having a go at him and it's not his fault etc etc. And while I know I'm full of hormones, I could literally smack him right now!
Anyone else had this? Been driven to murder? Etc etc xx
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Husband useless after MC
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Renaissance18 · 05/08/2017 16:04
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