Hi, I had an erpc last week after 13w routine scan showed no heartbeat and foetus had died at 9w. Totally unexpected as still had pregnancy symptoms and had no pain/bleeding. I'm so gutted as getting pregnant made me the happiest I had been since losing my dad and being trapped in depression for 2 years. I have to now think about returning to work but I had been put on different duties whilst I was pregnant and the thought of going back to my normal shift work just fills me with dread. I have no opportunity to follow a career now thanks to extortionate uni fees and I can't even afford a holiday to take my mind off things. I want to ttc asap but still bleeding and in pain. OH doesn't want to come near me now. I have no children and OH is a lot older than me so I feel like I may have ended all his hopes. I just don't have anything to be happy about anymore. Anyone else been in this situ?
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